Sunday, January 24, 2010

Kate the Skate, or Skate and Kate, whichever

Well, we've quickly jumped back into the hum-drum of our day to day lives. We did drive down the coast last weekend (the one non-rainy day in two weeks!) to see the gray whales migrating. It was kind of far out (binoculars would have been a huge help), but Chris and I could see the whales blow water out of their spouts. Way cool! I'm kicking myself for forgetting the camera. But anyway, despite being back into the same old routine, our lives are far from boring - the kids see to that. I've been trying to pay extra attention to their eccentricities over the past couple of weeks to make sure and document them. Here is Kate's contraption she made for herself to watch a movie. Kate always makes sure that the grocery store is an adventure by waving and "winking" (a whole face scrunch/eye twitch thing) at other people at the store. She also yells "mom" so loud if I move more than a foot away from the cart to grab something until one time I heard a kid in another aisle echoing Kate's yells. She's extremely territorial though. There was this cute little one year old saying "mama" in another cart and Kate yelled at him, "Hey! That's my mom!"

Kate has also got a temper. One day I had left with the car for about 15 minutes. While I was gone Kate got mad at Chris, put on her socks and shoes, and said she was going to go find her mom. She was standing in the doorway to the garage when I pulled in. We'll need to get a tree house at our next place for her to run away to when she's mad at us.

Kate continues to believe that she totally runs our family and that we would all be lost without her. She will tell Chris to say something, and when he does, she'll say, "there you go!" like she just helped him make some huge accomplishment. When we sat up to dinner tonight she said, "Don't worry guys, I'll say the prayer." She was telling me that her food was yucky and I was like, "then why did you ask for more?" Her reply, "because I'm Kate." And that about sums up just about everything she does. She is ultra independent (when she wants to be) and will get herself dressed in the morning and can peel her own clementines. We've decided that we should put her on the show, Survivor, and she would be a great team leader. (Is that show even on anymore?) Last Sunday Chris stayed home from church with Kate because she was sick. As we were driving, Aly says, "Man, the world sure is a quiet place without Kate!" (A very true statement.) Lise replied, "Kate's still in the world. She at our house!" You just can't get away with anything with our crew.

And for the grand finale for Kate . . . she was supposed to be in bed the other night when Chris and I heard a lot of thumping upstairs. When we went up to investigate we found her naked from the waist down doing middle splits in the tub. When we asked her what she was doing she replied, "I needed to go poop." Apparently she had already taken care of businees and gone to the bathroom, although why doing the splits in the tub was the logical thing to do afterwards in her mind is beyond me.

Shifting gears to Lise, she is super-uper-duper excited for me to have a baby. She has told all her friends and her teachers and is just so bummed that the baby isn't coming for so long. She had Kate and herself stuffing balloons under their shirts and pretending that they had babies in their tummies. I know I'm popping out a lot quicker with number four, but I'm not that big - yet. Lise also said, "If we give your tummy a hug, then we're hugging the baby." She wants a baby brother (maybe she's been traumatized by Kate?) and I think she is going to be a HUGE help when the baby comes. This baby is going to get a lot of mothering.

On a pregnancy note, I just have to say to anyone who hates cooking during those first few nauseous months of pregnancy that freezer meals are the way to go. I always get nauseous at night, and dinnertime is the worst. So this time, once I knew we were going to try for another baby, I started doubling meals when I'd prepare them and freezing them. I had about 15 meals frozen when the nausea hit and they have been a life saver. I still feel nauseous and lots of the food looks gross and I can't really eat it, but at least my family gets fed and I didn't have to get grossed out while preparing it, I just have to heat them up or bake them. I think I'll do the same thing for when the baby comes - those first few weeks are just so hectic and you're so tired!

And finally, there's Aly-goo. (When Lise was little, she couldn't say "girl", she'd always say "goo" and it's stuck.) She is just not a little kid anymore and it has caught me totally unawares. She had a friend at school get roller skates for Christmas and so she has been roller skating for the past 3 Saturdays. One day as we were driving, I popped in a CD and said, "oh yeah, Elvis!" Aly was like, "who's Elvis" then listened to the song for a few minutes and said, "Oh yeah, like in Lilo and Stitch." Am I sensing a generation gap? Not like Elvis was from my generation or anything, I got that from my mom, so maybe I can pass it on to her. I also found out today that Aly and her friends have formed the "P" club at school (Aly's the Vice President) and so she therefore needs to wear Pink and Purple to school. She came downstairs with purple pants and a purple shirt - two very different purples I might add. Yikes. Apparently it all started when they were playing "Penguins" on the playground and all happpened to be wearing pink and purple. Hmm. I remember being in a jelly bracelet club when I was in elementary school. Maybe times haven't changed that much.


Wednesday, January 13, 2010

The Twelve Lessons of Christmas

Well, we are back. After spending two eventful weeks with family over the holidays, we have safely returned to California and have jumped right back into the old grind. Before those holiday memories fade, however, we'd like to reminisce with you on a few things we learned over this Christmas season . . . 1- It is possible to get Jaden to smile for a picture!!

2- When making a cross country tip, driving throug the night is DEFINITELY the way to go to avoid hearing "are we there yet?" for 11 1/2 hours - even if it comes at the cost of dealing with a loopy husband doped up on sleeping pills. Also, don't get too excited on the home stretch, or you'll (Stacy) end up with a speeding ticket 15 minutes away from getting home.

3 - Despite all their craziness (and how the drive me crazy sometimes!), I love my little kiddos to death and am therefore crazy enough to have another. (Yes, this is an official announcement. I am pregnant with number 4 and due August 10th. And to answer everyone's first question - yes, we'd love it if it was a boy, but we'd also love it if it was a girl.)

4 - Despite claiming that some imaginary toy that doesn't exist is all that she wants for Christmas and insisting that "Santa can make it," Analise will forget all about that and be completely happy with all of her Christmas presents.

5 - Seeing your oldest daughter get baptized by your husband is an awesome feeling. And having a lot of family there to share it with you makes it even more special.

6 - If you get your daughter "Dora Saves the Snow Princess" for Christmas, you will soon be hearing things like, "my mom is a witch and I'm a snow princess."

7 - Even though Aly received around 20 books for christms, she will beg you to buy her more when the first book order comes home and swear to you that she can read all of her Christmas books in one day. To prove it, she will go upstairs and read 2 1/2 books in 2 1/2 hours.

8 - After two weeks of manipulating grandparents into spoiling her, Kate will suddenly decide that she has the authority to speak for her parents and grant herself permission for whatever she wants. She will therefore come to you and say things like, "Mom, can I have a piece of candy?" and then, while walking away, say, "Okay, that's fine," and then will proceed to help herself to whatever she wants.

9 - No matter how old your husband is, when he gets around his younger brother, he will revert to a 15 year old mentality. Also, don't let your husband get too close to your brother-in-law over the course of the trip. It will only result in contests involving eating vomit, skunk, and earwax flavored jelly beans - AND on New Year's Eve, your brother-in-law will get a "good game" smack on the butt at midnight, while you, however, are left without a kiss.

10 - Freezing winter weather and heavy snow storms are a lot of fun . . . for two weeks.
11 - Driving to a wedding in one of those snowstorms is not so fun and will cause Chris to tell the kids, "What did we learn from this? No December weddings!" to which Analise will reply, "Um, probably we'll forget that when we grow up, Dad." (I guess we'll have this blog to remind her. Oh, and the wedding actually turned out really great; it's just a long day with three kids in tow, onw of whom was in dire need for a nap! I also made Chris go on a burger and fry run for me from the reception in his bright orange tie, which was awesome.)

12 - After two weeks of games, movies, late nights banging on pans, and tons and tons of scrumptious food, you and your hubby will both come home completely exhausted and a little heavier than when you left. But it will alll be worth it and you will look back on the trip with fond remembrance. Thanks for a great trip everybody!